In regard to the issue of threesome with friends, different individuals hold various perspectives. Some say that couple dating could damage your friendship, because once you are sexually connected, it won’t be the same and you can never go back. Something is going to change between you. While some people disagree. They think that having threesome with friends can be a very reassuring experience, because there is bond between you and you are familiar with each other. It will be less awkward and more comfortable. There is no absolute answer for this question. The situation varies for different people with different personalities and backgrounds. I can only provide you some personal examples for you to consider. Here are some speeches from several people who had threesome with their friends. I hope they can help you decide.
Lily: “I had 3som with one of my best friends and my boyfriend last week. I gotta admit, it was a really pleasant experience. Having threesome with someone you already familiar with is nice, because you have emotional bond and tacit understanding. You don’t need to set boundaries beforehand. If someone did something that makes somebody uncomfortable, we just need a glimpse to understand that and we will stop. After the threesome, it was a little awkward at first, but after we talked about it, there is no big deal at all. We are just as close as before.”
Victoria: “My best friend wanted to join us for fetlife, me and my husband. I was quite hesitated about it first, but my husband and her were very interested about it. So I agreed. We have known each other for a very long time and we trust each other. There is no big deal. That was what I told myself before having a threesome. It was really nice though. We three had a really good time together. We spent the whole night together and happily. But after that, I got very suspicious of her and my husband, even a little paranoid. Every time she was invited to our house and every time my husband and her talked and looked at each other, I would feel weird and a little jealous. I guess I am a highly suspicious person and such kind of person shouldn’t have threesome with their friends.”
Sam: “I will never have threesome with my friend again. Never! As a 100% straight guy, I still can’t believe it that I had a threesome with my friend and with another girl. We met her at a bar. We were supposed to go there and find one for each of us, but this girl, she showed interested in both of us, so we were like, what the hell, we both want her. So we went. After seeing each other naked and all that, we can’t look into each other in the eye for two whole months. It was so embarrassed.”